Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Special Places, Special People

Many of us have place that we keep sacred.

This special space is a place where we can feel most at ease with the world; a place where we feel closest to our creator.

When we bring others to share in our space we enhance the joy and peace of these surroundings by adding to the love and the memories.

As with faith, it is in sharing that we are brought to deeper understanding that in turn will bring greater joy, peace and love. Each time we experience the changes that come with this sharing we are strengthened and encouraged to find a way to share again.

Those people with whom we share these experiences and places also grow in a bond of love, friendship and understanding.

This is the basis of our relationships with those who share our earthly journey as well as our relationship with God. Special people in special places growing together in love.

Monday, August 24, 2009

Never Give Up

Sometimes in life we are blessed to witness true growth.

Having coached this young lady once before many years ago, I knew that she was not one of my strongest players. During her first few games of this season, she oft shied from the approaching soccer ball or oncoming players.

None the less, my approach to the game is that we all have fun and keep trying. Throughout the season this young lady showed us that she could carry the ball and even take it away occasionally from the opposition. We enthusiastically encouraged every attempt.

The last day of our season, the end of the year tournament, we were privileged to watch my young friend come into her own on the field. She never gave up. She played hard and was instrumental in the final win.

How often does our Lord watch us grow, slowly and steadily? Though we may fail and falter he encourages us to never give up. The game may still be ours to win.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

A Journey Begins

In a few short days - or, as I was reminded today, in two sleeps - my family and I will embark on the adventure of a lifetime. We are traveling to Tanzania to volunteer for three weeks in the village of Boma Ng'ombe near Mount Kilimanjaro.

The brain child of one of my daughters, this trip is now about to become reality. Bags are almost packed, passports and visas are in hand, baby sitters have been found for the pets and itineraries have been distributed to people who need them.

As we prepare for our journey I marvel at the details that require our attention. We are no longer a society that can move easily. We are tied to jobs, homes, friends and situations. Through technology we can remain connected with each of these if we choose or we can embrace a new culture and a new way of being.

What will it take to break those ties? How long before we are molded by African time and tribal ways?

We plan to blog about our journey. We know that we will go to the internet cafe in Moshi town each Monday and Thursday and that on these occasions we will update our friends and followers. I invite you to join us on this journey.

Will Africa change our hearts and our ways? Will we be able to make enhancements to the lives of those we meet and work with? No one will know for sure until we get there and perhaps, as many of us have experienced, the real changes will be seen and felt at times even further in the future.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

The Race

For twenty-two days each July I become a racing fan. Many mornings and every evening, the television shows beautiful mountain vistas or the narrow streets of long established villages or rows of maturing vineyards.

Passing through each of these scenes the riders of the Tour de France battle the elements and each other for the precious yellow jersey.

I cannot claim to understand the intricacies of bike racing. I rarely ride my own bicycle.

Instead I am repeated captivated by the human spirit.

What moves a person to compete on his machine every day for twenty two days (minus two rest days)? What powers those human legs to push up a steep mountain pass? How do they sustain mental alertness to carefully traverse the winding downhill course? Where do these men find the physical reserves to drive to the finish line after four hours of mountainous road in the blazing sun?

Although, I may never have the skill of the racers in the Tour de France, but I can learn from their shining examples.

Set a goal, stay focused and never give up - tomorrow is another day. Each new day is an opportunity start anew while having learned from the lessons of the previous days.

Remember, until we are called Home, the race is not yet won.

Perseverance

A sturdy helmet protected her head, warm mittens covered her hands and her tiny frame was dressed in a beautiful sparkling fuchsia outfit. It would have been a pretty picture but for the look of terror on her face.

She was a timid beginner skater encouraged to try the sport because of her older sister's interest.

On that first day she 'skated' for 55 minutes. Together we made it around the ice surface at the arena three times. She learned to fall and to get up, to take baby steps and hopefully to enjoy at least some of these successes. Remarkably, despite the number of occasions when her feet flew from underneath her and she found herself laying on the ice, she continue to try and never shed a tear.

Two practice sessions later my little friend circled the ice twice without falling.

We have so much to learn about perseverance from my little friend. How many times do we fall and believe we will never be able to get up again? How often do we give up after trying for just a short while? How many times do we talk ourselves out of trying something new before we take that first step?

I believe that at times we are given difficulties to test ourselves. Our challenges present themselves not for success or accomplishment, but as opportunities to learn and to grow. Next time you are faced with a problem, what will you do?

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Little Girl, Big Lesson

“Moss-key-toe” she said with enthusiasm, her big blue eyes framed by curly golden locks. She had the look of an angel, “I love how that word feels coming out of my mouth”.

It was February and we were skating. Those pesky little flying insects were the furthest thing from my mind when she shared this thought with me. Although it has been years, I cannot help but watch those little creatures each summer and recall those words.

For most of us, mosquitoes are a nuisance or even a conveyor of disease. For this little one, the mere utterance of the word itself was to be reveled.

How often do we take the time to feel how words come out of our mouths? Can you feel the hum of the “m” or the smile as you pronounce the “e” or how about the pursing of your lips to speak the “o”? Do you consider your cadence when you speak? Do some words themselves bring pleasure just to speak them?

We are often so busy communicating our message rarely do we take the time to consider the words that we are using. How do our words feel for us? How do they feel for the listener?

This little angelic child offered a huge lesson for all of us that day.

Take a little time to really consider your words next time you speak them. Enjoy each enunciated syllable. Come to appreciate the ability to feel words as they come out. Perhaps as we slow down long enough to feel our words, we will also find time to appreciate other things in our lives as well.

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Over a Rainbow

"But I'm not done yet!"

After a minute long pause to admire a full arched rainbow, I was greeted with that response as I tried to re-engage the girls in soccer practice.

Our soccer practices are fun with a purpose. We rarely do drills. Instead we use skill developing games. Most games and races are played with a soccer ball but we throw in the occasional kick-line or leap frog race just to keep it interesting. Laughter dominates our practices. At times we get more players at practices than at games because we have so much fun.

This day was a rainy one, typical of our Northern Ontario weather this year. Drizzle would fizzle, the sun would peek out only to be hidden by the next cloud that would break open with a torrent of rain moments later.

The 12 and 13 year old soccer playing girls were soaked and cold. But when the sun illuminated the Eastern sky and a full rainbow reach across the horizon, we felt obliged to call our game of "Maze" to a halt to admire the beauty.

It was wonderful to hear the exuberant compliments for this celestial artwork. Young voices exclaimed praise and appreciation for this dance of light on damp skies. The group's expressed desire to slow down for one minute more to marvel over nature's display filled me with gratitude for the gifts these ladies bring to my day.

I know I am privileged to spend time with these very special young women, but on this day, as I learned more about their appreciation for God's handiwork, I was filled with a greater love for all of creation.

Saturday, July 4, 2009

A Good Laugh

"Laughter is the shortest distance between two people"
Victor Borge

It is said that children laugh hundreds of times each day. However as these children mature into adulthood that laughter quotient lowers to about 25 times each day.

We have all been there: an elevator, a bus stop, an office or even place of worship; a space shared with many others, some familiar, some not quite, but all wearing the same blank stare. In a space shared by children giggles and even belly laughter can erupt in mere minutes, but with adults giggles may not happen at all.

Science has proven that a few minutes of laughter will relax the body, enhance the immune system, lower blood pressure and even improve the functioning of the heart. Our brains are wired to interact with others. With shared laughter 'feel good' chemicals flood the spaces between brain cells. Laughter has very positive physical consequences.

In our own lives we we can relate personal experiences in which laughter has brought us closer to another person. A good chuckle can reveal more about another person than hours of conversation. It is that building of relationships that is the essence of our journey.

Laughter is one of our greatest blessings. Take some time to reach out, close that distance between you and one other person today: share a joke, make face, or tell a humourous story. Sharing the blessing of humour.

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Relationships

There was a time not long ago, a time when neighbours spoke to each other, when a friend lived next door or was just a phone call away; a time when families played board games or sat around the supper table and talked.

Yes, people talked to each other. In today's world one could maneuver through an entire day without interacting with those around him or her. Cell phones, bluetoothes, iPods and other devices serve to keep us engaged in our own little worlds and to maintain distance from those around us.

Yet, it is interactions with others that truly enhances our experience of life in the world.

Personal relationships are an exchange. You receive as much, if not more, than what you give if you express interest in another person. As you express interest in another person, they develop an interest in you. The joy in these personal relationships is that the more your give, the more you usually receive.

We as a society are losing the art of communication on a deeper more meaningful level. Take a little time today to reach out to someone and listen. Learn a little more about one other person today, you may be surprised by the rewards that are waiting.

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Exam Time

As my daughters prepare for final exams it is always my pleasure to try to help with studying, because I know that all too soon these opportunities will vanish forever.

This evening, with my limited knowledge of the French language, I attempted to assist with preparations for a Religion exam. As I read and re-read beatitudes and commandments in another tongue, I delighted how this experience deepened my understanding. The words themselves, in some cases, spoke loudly as they looked-like or sounded-like familiar tones of my native tongue. Other phrases rang new truth through discussion to enhance my knowledge of French. Sometimes it was the sharing of perceptions that brought re-newed faith.

I was reminded of the importance of sharing our faith with family, friends and our faith communities. It is through these experiences that we all grow as Christians.

Old words and concepts bloomed in a new light tonight. This evening brought some special gifts: the privilege of helping my child study, the opportunity enhance my knowledge of another language and most importantly the gift of shared faith in our family.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Looking Back

Friends from the past made unexpected and yet very welcomed appearances this weekend.

These visits brought me back almost 25 years. During these fast paced days the occasions to reminisce are few and far between. It is only when we take time to recall the person we once were, that we can really appreciate the person we are now.

In taking time to recall successes and failures, triumphs and tragedies, the presence of God in our lives takes shape. By looking back we can see how He put the right people in our path at exactly the right time. Some of these people journey with us for only a short time, but their words or deeds may have had a life changing effect. Other friends may have been with us through all occasions as a shining example of how our God would never leave us.

Through retrospection, we see how events in our lives, happening when they did and how they did, have influenced what we do and how we do things today.

Although it may be years before I fully understand why these people have made a reappearance on my journey, I am grateful for these opportunities. My experiences this weekend have served to reinforce for me the presence and love of a Divine force that I trust will continue to act as guide for all that I do.

Friday, June 19, 2009

67 Divided By 200,000

Today is the Solemnity of the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus. This year it also marks the beginning of a Year for Priests, as designated by Pope Benedict XVI.

I live, work and worship in the City of Greater Sudbury. We are part of the Diocese of Sault Ste. Marie, a 196, 603 square kilometre Diocese, which is home to over 200,000 Catholics who are shepherded by 67 active priests in 105 parishes.

This means that most priests administer to the needs of more than more parish. Imagine running two households. Paying the bills for two properties?
Attempting to balance the needs of two families?

There is one priest for every 3000 Catholics in this Diocese. Imagine number of Masses, Weddings, and Funerals each priest presides over in a year. How many sacraments does each of these men perform? How do they find the time to minister to the personal needs of their flocks?

These numbers are staggering. How can 67 men tend to the spiritual needs of so many? The spiritual answer is that God gives them the strength to carry on and to do His good work.

But these are also men in human bodies. As people they are carrying the load of this huge undertaking with little support at times. If we want to have priests in the future for our Masses, weddings, funerals, sacraments and to tend to our personal needs, we need to offer our support to them and to help distribute the weight of this burden.

Take some time to thank your priest for this enormous responsibility that he carries. To paraphrase President John F. Kennedy, "Ask not what your priest can do for you, but ask what you can do for your priest."




Sunday, June 14, 2009

Honesty

When asked why I love to be around children, I will often response, "Because of their honesty".

This morning, while preparing our children for a reenactment of the last supper, we talked about the love that Jesus shared with His disciples as He washed their feet. We went on to discuss how He shared memories with them that continue on today as we celebrate Mass.

The children were encouraged to think about how Jesus shared bread with His followers as we shared pita loaves amongst ourselves. Though wine was the beverage of choice for Jesus and His disciples, I asked the children what alternative beverage we might share this morning. With barely a second to think, one little friend responded, "How about Bud Light?"

I imagine that the Lord felt we needed to share a giggle this stormy morning. I quietly thanked God for this child's honest and humorous response as we poured white grape juice into their glasses. Meanwhile, I may need to have a chat with this child's parent.

Friday, June 12, 2009

Graduation

My oldest daughter attended her High School Graduation and Dance today. I was graced with the privilege of tending to her needs as she prepared for this special evening.

Together we had sought the perfect dress. I felt fortunate to have the skill and to be asked to alter this dress so that it fit her precisely. My daughter's hair was done by the same lady who cut her hair for the first time so many years ago. After make-up was applied and finishes touches where added to the dress, she donned her corsage and was ready to go; a radiant beauty.

I was asked to follow her to the pre-graduation party to take photos with her friends, some of whom have been together since the first day of Junior Kindergarten. Each of these young people have played a role in her life to this point. In the fall they will scatter across this country to pursue their educational goals. I imagine that they will remain good friends and that distances will not keep them apart.

For this mother, this was a day to reflect on that special little girl whose appearance in this world was as unique as she is. Together we revisited many of the places and people who have influenced the person that she has become. On this day, we celebrated the closing door of high school education while looking forward with eager anticipation to a bright future.

As the events of this day came to pass, I was reminded that with every change in life a door will close. In these doors, however, are also windows to opportunities yet to be discovered. Only our Creator knows all of the surprises, twists and turns to come, but it is our trust that what is happening, is meant to happen and that life is unfolding, just as He planned.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Mothers

Fittingly, today, we spoke about Jesus as the vine and we are all branches. Separated from Jesus, like a sprout ripped from a tree, we could not survive.

We are also branches from our mothers. The woman's body is so uniquely designed to conceived and nurture a tiny fetus. Even before pregnancy is obvious to the rest of the world, a mother takes that growing child into her heart and holds it there for a live time. Once born, it is the mother's body that offers sustenance for the baby's first months. As the child gains mobility and independence a mother continues to offer a place of refuge, of safety and of unconditional love. Through trials and heartaches, sadness and joy, times of turmoil and times of peace, a mother remains steadfast in her commitment to her child.

Take a few minutes to reflect on the gifts given to you by your mother and mother-like women in your life. Consider the sacrifices these women made for you. Reflect on the blessing that these women have been for you.

With this, I offer thanks to my mother and to all mothers, for the gifts and the sacrifices made for me. Won't you join me in a prayer of gratitude?

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Caring

"It was the worst day of my life. They called me into the office, told me that I was no longer working there, asked for my keys and then they escorted me out. After 19 years, it was so humiliating."

"I got lucky. I am new in my workplace, but two of the four people in my department took an early retirement. I am still working, but I feel so guilty knowing that there are many people who are not."

This conversation at a lunch table recently is probably not unique. Many in our communities, in Canada and globally, are experiencing the heart ache of job loss, while others are feeling the emotional pain of surviving with a job knowing that others have lost theirs.

For each of these people the reality will be a little different depending on their age, stage in life and financial situation. But for all of these people the sun will rise in the morning and set each evening. What is important is how they will continue to live each day in their new reality.

No one can survive alone in these tough economic times. This is a great opportunity to grow in our ability to offer support and demonstrate caring for our neighbours. Though financial support is not always an option, spending time with someone in distress is free for us to give.

If you know someone who is a 'survivor' in the workplace or someone who was not, take a little time to listen to their story and offer your support by way of a friendly gesture or kind words. A little time spent caring can go a long way in healing the wounds caused by our economy.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

A Gift

Every once in a while we are privileged to be part of an extraordinary moment. Take a few minutes to watch the following video on You tube of Susan Boyle; be sure to continue watch it until its conclusion.

As you may have noted in the media and in this video, people in the audience and perhaps some reading this, doubted that this 47 year old single, unemployed woman had any talent when she walked onto that stage.

Susan Boyle's vocal gift took many by surprise that evening.

How often do we judge a person before we get to know their gifts? How many people in our lives have talents and aspirations for those talents that have gone unnoticed or untended?

While it is rare to have a hidden talent such as Susan's, many of us fail to fully use the gifts given to us by our Creator. We often do not express these abilities because we believe that someone, somewhere can do this better, or that we are not good enough, or we believe that we are too shy. We are not given gifts to keep hidden, but to use them and to develop them fully.

Consider all of the marvelous talents that you and those around you possess. How can you take these gifts and use them to help in your community or with your family, to glorify the God who gave these to you? Perhaps there is a hidden Susan Boyle in you waiting for the chance to be set free.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Veronica

Earlier this week, while taking part in a Good Friday service, one of my young friends commented to me with great delight that we were wearing the same shoes.

As people journeying together we often look for similarities. The more we are "like" someone else, the greater the possibility we will seek friendship with that person. We often seek friendship with others of the same age group or gender; we enjoy time with people do activities that we also enjoy; we strike up conversation with another who is carrying the book of the same title as the one we are reading. As humans we are drawn to others who are similar to us.

So what was it in Jesus's plight as He dragged his cross up the road to Golgatha that drew Veronica's attention? What did she see in Jesus, covered in sweat, bleeding from wounds brought on by his handlers, that made her rush from the crowds? Why did she push beyond the guards to wipe Jesus's face? What similaries did Veronica share with that prisoner being lead to his death?

Do you have a Veronica in your life? Which of your friends would be there for you when no one else seems to care? Who would stand up for you? Who would stand with you through tough times?

If you have such a person in your life, give her a call to say thank you. Cherish the wisdom of this friend. Use this example of unfailing friendship as a model for your relationships.

Next time you see someone experiencing a tough time, consider Veronica, and offer your support. The help you offer today may become a brave model for others in the future.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Journey

In this part of the world families involved with the education system are familiar with the yearly March Break. Many, taking advantage of a week without school, spend time relaxing or vacationing with family. Some celebrate winter on the slopes while others seek sunnier climates to escape the winter's chill.

As my family packed for our week long get-away, complete with warm weather clothing, IPods, laptops, cellphones and other 'necessities', I paused to reflect on the amazing journey that Jesus's disciples took many years ago.

At Jesus's call the disciples left their work, their families and their lives to follow Jesus and spread the Good News.

How difficult would it be for me, my family or many of my friends to abandon everything that we know and follow our beliefs? Can we leave behind the comforts of home and the trappings of 'civilization' not knowing where our next meal would come from or where we would spend our nights? What challenges would we face legally and financially in pursuing this call from God?

I do not doubt that the disciples faced challenges from family and friends as they left to follow Christ. I am sure that on occassion they may have wondered about where food or lodgings would be found. And yet, the Lord provided for them.

Most of us are not asked to abandon life as we know it, we are asked only to follow and to proclaim from our present positions. Yet how many of us are prepared to accept that challenge?

Our journey on this earth is brief, are we ready to listen to His call and follow where He leads?

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Human recall notice

The Maker of all human beings (GOD) is recalling all units manufactured, regardless of make or year, due to a serious defect in the primary and central component of the heart.

This is due to a malfunction in the original prototype units code named Adam and Eve, resulting in the reproduction of the same defect in all subsequent units. This defect has been technically termed 'Sub-sequential Internal Non-Morality,' or more commonly known as S.I.N., as it is primarily expressed.

Some of the symptoms include:
1. Loss of direction
2. Foul vocal emissions
3. Amnesia of origin
4. Lack of peace and joy
5. Selfish or violent behavior
6. Depression or confusion in the mental component
7. Fearfulness
8. Idolatry
9. Rebellion

The Manufacturer, who is neither liable nor at fault for this defect, is providing factory-authorized repair service free of charge to correct this defect.

The Repair Technician, JESUS, has most generously offered to bear the entire burden of the staggering cost of these repairs. There is no additional fee required.

The number to call for repair in all areas is: P-R-A-Y-E-R. Once connected, please upload your burden of SIN through the REPENTANCE procedure. Next, download ATONEMENT from the Repair Technician, JESUS, into the heart component.

No matter how big or small the SIN defect is, JESUS will replace it with:
1. Love
2. Joy
3. Peace
4. Patience
5. Kindness
6. Goodness
7. Faithfulness
8. Gentleness
9. Self control

Please see the operating manual, the B.I.B.L.E. (Believers' Instructions Before Leaving Earth) for further details on the use of these fixes.

WARNING:
Continuing to operate the human being unit without correction voids any manufacturer warranties, exposing the unit to dangers and problems too numerous to list and will result in the human unit being permanently impounded. For free emergency service, call on JESUS.

DANGER:
The human being units not responding to this recall action will have to be scrapped in the furnace. The SIN defect will not be permitted to enter Heaven so as to prevent contamination of that facility.

Thank you for your attention!
GOD

P.S. Please assist where possible by notifying others of this important recall notice, and you may contact the Father any time by 'Knee mail'.
Because He Lives!

Saturday, March 7, 2009

Time in Eternity

"I'm turning six soon" said my young friend.

"How wonderful," I answered, "When is your birthday?"

"April 6th", she responded, "It's during March Break!"

While some may question my young friend's awareness of the working of our calendar. I paused to reflect on how right she was.

Time is a human thing. We invented the calendar and the clock in an effort to establish order in our world. We have become slaves to this thinking.

We panic that we will be late for an appointment. We wait patiently for days to pass until our next vacation, birthday or rendezvous. Distances traveled are often marked by minutes or hours. Some of us carefully plan each moment of our day.

Yet, in the end, what is time but an invention of man?

I imagine that time in Heaven is limitless and undefined. An hour, a minute or a year each pass in the same way...unmarked.

Because eternity is infinite, there is no need mark it. Conversely, marking time in Heaven is futile, because human time does not exist. Hence, like my young friend's impression of her April birthday occurring during March Break, anything is possible.

When a loved one passes from this world to the next, those in mourning long for the day when they will be reunited. For those left behind, each day may feel like eternity. For our loved ones, in a timeless Heaven, that same time may feel like only a moment or two.

We are so loved by our Creator, that we have been promised eternal life. Knowing that we will be reunited with those who have moved on and imagining that, for those loved ones, time is unmarked; we must continue to live each day and praise God for His tremendous gift and loving promise of life in eternity with Him.

Such amazing wisdom from a little friend about to turn six!

Friday, March 6, 2009

I swear

A local radio station ran an item yesterday in which the hypothesis was that swearing as part of the English language has evolved in order to allow adults to diffuse some of the tensions that build up as part of our fast-paced lives.

One of the arguments advanced was that traditional authority figures such as the Church which says that swearing is taboo actually open the curiosity of adherants to exploring such taboos. The satire about this statement is that in recent years, the Church and other such authority figures are themselves being increasingly perceived as taboo, so if this hypothesis holds, does that mean that there will soon be an influx of curious onlookers who come beating down the doors in search of .... something?

Monday, March 2, 2009

57,600 Minutes

' In 525,600 minutes - how do you
measure a year in the life?'

From Seasons of Love in the show Rent, these words beckon us to consider the value we place on a year of life. Each year, each of us is given the same 525, 600 minutes to make a difference. Can you measure the difference that you make?

For Catholics, this is the season of Lent. A time of fast, abstinence, and alms giving. For some, it is a time to give up something precious for 40 days. For others, it is an opportunity to go out of our way to "do good".

Lent is a season of 57,600 minutes. What can you do to make a difference in those 57, 600 moments?

Can you spend a few more of those moments in the presence of the One who created you?
How about giving some minutes in service to your faith community?
Do you have an hour or two to spend with a lonely relative or neighbour?
Are there moments available to help the poor?
Do you have time to share your talents with others?

Challenge yourself to make a difference with your 57, 600 minutes this Lent.

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Setting things right

Last month, I wrote about an act on the part of the pope which was meant to restore peace, and to be seen as an act of reconciliation. Unfortunately, Benedict's good intentions resulted in a furor of press coverage about the fact that one of the four discenting bishops who had had their excommunications lifted had been quoted as denying the reality of the holocaust.

According to a CTV story, published today, His Excellency, Richard Williamson, a member of the Society of Saint Pius X, issued an apology for his previous denial.

The best intentions of mice and men can always carry strings attached. Unfortunately, some of those strings are only discovered in the course of living life.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Priorities

Health experts speak of five dimensions of health: physical, mental, emotional, social and spiritual. Each of these is important to maintain a well balanced lifestyle.

The media often highlights for us the newest information about what foods are good to eat and the need for physical activity. Many people will seek nutrient rich foods, spend hours in the gym and visit their physician regularly.

We read to increase our knowledge or sometimes engage in thought provoking activities. Scientists point to the need for continuing to challenge our minds to slow the aging process.

We seek emotionally supportive relationships. Sociologists tell us that our minds react to a smiling face forcing our own facial muscles to return the gesture. We recognize the healing value of a touch or a hug.

John Dunn said "No man is an island" indicating that we need opportunities to interact with others. We have long lists of friends and acquaintances. Having someone to share our lives with can lengthen our life.

But what of the spiritual dimension of health. Sure, some of us go to Church, some of us pray, and some of us may even seek faith development opportunities. However, if schedules get too full, the snow is falling on a Sunday morning, or if we feel run off our feet, it seems that this dimension of health will fall off the priority list first.

Do you consider your spiritual health in the same way you think about your physical health? Compared to works of fiction on your bookshelf, how many books of a religious nature do you own? Do you offer exchanges of "God Bless You" as often as you wish someone a "Good Day"? Do you seek spiritual experiences as often as you do friendships?

What would it take for you to raise the priority of spiritual health?

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Alone

A leaf, brave and alone, clung to the branch against wind and snow. Against the odds, it had survived the harsh autumn rains, unpredictable ice storms and the heavy snows of a Northern winter.

Do you ever feel like that leaf? Do you feel cold, alone and forgotten?

As I watched that leaf dance in the cool breeze, I wondered how many people share those feelings. There are many who lack companionship. Many who feel deserted by family, friends and society.

We as Christians are comforted in the knowledge that our Lord promised to always be with us. We will never be alone.

In response to that promise we are also obligated to share that knowledge and to demonstrate our compassion for others. Reach out to someone who you know may be lonely or may not believe. Perhaps they will welcome your companionship and through your example come to follow.

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

United in a Simple Act

As water poured from the kettle onto the dried leaves, the gentle aroma of jasmine and green tea filled my senses transporting me to a mountain far away under a gentle morning sun.

In that moment, I knew that the sun that bathed the people picking tea leaves also brightens my day. The water that brings nourishment to the plant also brings refreshment to me. The same planet that supports the plant and the tea pickers also supports me.

Although I will never know the identity of the people whose labour has brought me this sensory delight, I know that I am one with these people. We are united in a simple act; the culmination of the works of many made this moment possible...people who picked the leaves, processed the tea, packaged the product, shipped it, shelved it and sold it. We are all one.

We are one in this process of making tea, just as we are one in our Lord. Born of this earth, raised by His plan, we are each playing our small part to complete the larger plan. We may not know each other, but without one another, we cannot be complete.

As I sip my tea, I am lifted by the image of unity with others who share this earth with me. I express my gratitude in a prayer of thanks, for the many hands who contributed to this moment. My prayer lifts me back onto that mountain, in a gentle morning sun, bathed in knowledge of the Oneness that completes us all.

Saturday, January 31, 2009

Making Plans

Did you have a plan for the day when you woke up this morning? Did you plot your shopping trip? Did you prepare for what to chat with your friend about when you called? Did you strategize about what to eat and drink today?

How many plans do we make each day?

Many of us take the time to arrange what we will do, who we will spend time with and what we will eat each day. We organize what entertainment to take in and how to spend our quiet moments. Society dictates norms for us to follow ensuring the structured use of each minute of each day. Idle time is looked down on by the mavens of industriousness.

Many people today lead lives that are so mapped out, they do not have time to notice the unexpected events that are meant to enhance our journey of self discovery. We are so absorbed in getting to the next charted event we miss moments of beauty as He unfolds them before us. We try to over ride the unexpected gifts from our Creator with our own intentions, missing the great joy He has waiting.

At the end of each day, before creating your next 'to do list' ask yourself, "Did I spend this day working in co-operation with God's design for me?"

At the top of tomorrow's list challenge yourself to be open to God's plan for you and to savour the treasures that He has arranged.

Monday, January 26, 2009

In response

Pope Benedict XVI's decree lifting of the latae sententiae excommunication imposed on four bishops in 1988 has been hailed as a major success story and a step toward strengthening ties of unity.

In response to this decree, His Excellency Bernard Fellay, Secretary-general for the Society of Saint Pius X has published a written response. The English translation of his text appeared in today's daily dispatch of the on-line magazine ZENIT.

Response From Leader of Society of St. Pius X

The excommunication of the bishops consecrated by His Grace Archbishop Marcel Lefebvre, on June 30, 1988, which had been declared by the Congregation for Bishops in a decree dated July 1, 1988, and which we had always contested, has been withdrawn by another decree mandated by Benedict XVI and issued by the same Congregation on January 21, 2009.

We express our filial gratitude to the Holy Father for this gesture which, beyond the Priestly Society of Saint Pius X, will benefit the whole Church. Our Society wishes to be always more able to help the pope to remedy the unprecedented crisis which presently shakes the Catholic world, and which Pope John Paul II had designated as a state of "silent apostasy."

Besides our gratitude towards the Holy Father and towards all those who helped him to make this courageous act, we are pleased that the decree of January 21 considers as necessary "talks" with the Holy See, talks which will enable the Priestly Society of Saint Pius X to explain the fundamental doctrinal reasons which it believes to be at the origin of the present difficulties of the Church.

In this new atmosphere, we have the firm hope to obtain soon the recognition of the rights of Catholic Tradition.

Menzingen, January 24, 2009
Bernard Fellay

Here it is

Below is an English-language translation of the decree released Saturday by the Congregation for Bishops regarding the lifting of the excommunication imposed on four bishops ordained in 1988 by Marcel Lefebvre. This translation appeared in the daily dispatch of ZENIT.

With a letter of Dec. 15, 2008, sent to His Eminence Cardinal Darío Castrillón Hoyos, president of the Pontifical Commission Ecclesia Dei, Monsignor Bernard Fellay, in his name and in that of the other bishops consecrated June 30, 1988, again requested the lifting of the excommunication latae sententiae formally declared by decree of the prefect of this Congregation for Bishops on July 1, 1988.
In the mentioned letter, Monsignor Fellay affirms, among other things:


"We are always fervently determined in the will to be and to remain Catholics and to place all of our strength at the service of the Church of Our Lord Jesus Christ, which is the Roman Catholic Church. We accept all of her teachings with a filial spirit. We firmly believe in the primacy of Peter and in his prerogatives and because of this, the present situation makes us suffer so much."

His Holiness Benedict XVI, paternally sensitive to the spiritual unrest manifested by the interested parties because of the sanction of excommunication, and trusting in the commitment expressed by them in the cited letter to spare no effort in going deeper in the necessary conversations with the authorities of the Holy See in matters still unresolved, and to be able to thus arrive quickly to a full and satisfactory solution of the problem existing from the beginning, has decided to reconsider the canonical situation of the bishops Bernard Fellay, Bernard Tissier de Mallerais, Richard Williamson and Alfonso de Galarreta, which arose with their episcopal consecration.

With this act it is desired to consolidate the mutual relations of trust, [and] to intensify and make more stable the relationship of the Fraternity of St. Pius X with the Apostolic See. This gift of peace, at the end of the celebrations of Christmas, also aims to be a sign for the promotion of unity in charity of the universal Church, and with this means, come to remove the scandal of division.

It is desired that this step be followed by the solicitous fulfillment of full communion with the Church of the Society of St. Pius X, thereby witnessing to authentic fidelity and a true recognition of the magisterium and the authority of the Pope, with the proof of visible unity.
In virtue of the faculties that have been expressly conceded to me by the Holy Father, Benedict XVI, in virtue of the present decree, I lift from Bishops Bernard Fellay, Bernard Tissier de Mallerais, Richard Williamson and Alfonso de Galarreta the censure of excommunication
latae sententiae declared by this congregation on July 1, 1988, and declare void of juridical effects beginning today the decree published then.
Rome, Congregation for the Bishops, Jan. 21, 2009
Cardinal Giovanni Battista Re
Prefect of the Congregation for Bishops


The fact that this decree, which holds such importance as a sign of unity and peace, was published at the conclusion of the Week of Prayer for Christian Unity, is certainly of great significance.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

After twenty years

Excommunicaton does still exist as a penalty in the Catholic Church. It is very rarely imposed, but sometimes there is no other option. Speaking of options, there are some cases where an excommunicaton can be imposed by the mere fact of having committed a certain grave sin. Referred to as latae sententiae, each of the seven instances incur an excommunication immedately upon the commission of the wrongful act.

What are these acts, you may ask?
  • Apostasy, heresy or schism (cn. 1364, 1);
  • Profanation of the consecrated species (cn. 1367);
  • Physical violence against the Pope (cn. 1370, 1);
  • Attempting to absolve an accomplice (cn. 1378, 1);
  • Ordination of a bishop without a pontifical mandate (cn. 1382);
  • Violation of the sacramental seal by the confessor (cn. 1388, 1); and
  • Procuring an abortion (cn. 1398).

On June 30, 1988, His Excellency, Marcel Lefebvre, then titular Archbishop of Tulle (France) unlawfully ordained four bishops. The resulting latae sententiae excommunication has remained in effect until yesterday.

In two separate declarations, issued in Italian only by the Vatican's Press Office and by the Congregation for Bishops, three of the four bishops were re-communicated yesterday. There has obviously been much discussion going on behind the scenes because the tradition of the Church is that we always hope and pray for reconciliation, even in the gravest of situations.

According to the declaration, dated January 21, 2009 and published on yesterday, Their Excellencies, Bernard Fellay, Bernard Tissier de Mallerais, Richard Williamson e Alfonso de Galarreta have now been re-admitted to full communion with the Roman Catholic Church.

Saturday, January 24, 2009

The old and the new

This weekend, the Church celebrates the Feast of the Conversion of Saint Paul. This most important figure in our sacred history takes us back to the city of Antioch, where the first believers were referred to as Christians for the first time in history.

Coincidence or not, this week also saw the election of the new Patriarch of Antioch for Syrian Catholics, His Beatitude Ignace Youssif III Younan.

This is one of the rare moments when the Church demonstrates the unity that exists between the Eastern and the Western branches that make up its followers. At the end of the annual observance of the Week of Prayer for Christian Unity, it is also apropos that through this example, we should all be called to reflect on our call to work toward establishing peace with others through the relationships we forge.

Friday, January 23, 2009

Vatican Tube

Vatican City, which has had a multi-lingual web presence for some years now, launched a new chapter in its history today. Jumping on the YouTube bandwagon, it is now possible for the world to view videos of some of the major activities the Vatican publicises on the world stage.

The Vatican YouTube channel offers news coverage of the main activities of the Holy Father Pope Benedict XVI and of relevant Vatican events.It is updated daily.Video images are produced by Centro Televisio Vaticano (CTV), texts by Vatican Radio (RV) and CTV.This video-news presents the Catholic Churchs position regarding the principal issues of the world today.Links give access to the full and official texts of cited documents.
This new innovation coincides with the publication of the Holy Father's Message for the 43rd World Day of Social Communications, which took place today. Fittingly, the theme for this year's message is New Technologies, New Relationships: Promoting a culture of Respect, Dialogue and Friendship. The World Day of Social Communicatons will be observed on May 24, 2009.

In the eye of the storm

In the initial days of his presidency, Barak Obama has certainly turned heads as he moves with lightning speed to reverse some of the key decisions implemented by his imediate predecessor. The world has watched with rapped attention as executive orders were signed this week to begin the process of closing down the detention centre established at Guantanamo Bay.

Couple this with his swift moves to contact the political leaders in the Middle East, assuring them of his openness to working with them to establish peace in their war-torn region, and it becomes abundantly clear that he is intent on establishing his presidency on the basis of transparency, something which at least some would say is a departure from his predecessor's style of government.

Today is day three on the job, and already there is talk of his reversing the policy on abortion which has been in place since 2001. This is only one of a number of decisons which is sure to awaken the ire of some and the jubilation of others ... but then again, Mr. Obama doesn't seem to be too concerned about standing in the midst of the storm.

This generation

Those who are in the know have tried to characterize human beings based on the generation to which we belong. Those who were teenagers in the 1960's were known as the Boomers ... more recently we have heard tell of the GenX'ers, of those who belong to Generation Y, those who are part of the Internet Generation ... etc.

Enter the most recent characterization ... those who belong to a Lost Generation. With the abundance of physical posessions which has become the norm in many people's lives, the reality is that there is a deeper thirst, for a spiritual dimention to life ... for answers to the questions of who am I, how will I make a difference, and even a renewed awareness of a call to serve, as evidenced in this week's day of service to the less fortunate, spearheaded by the yet-to-be inaugurated President of the United States of America.

Young people in today's society, who may be characterized by some as members of the Lost Generation, can choose to make a difference, must choose to believe that they can make a difference. This was made crystal clear by a recently discovered reflection posted on the YouTube site.

Will you make a difference? It's all a matter of perception.

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Six Turning Seven

"My birthday is tomorrow," whispered my little friend.

"How wonderful," I replied. "How old will you be?"

"Seven," she responded. "But I am only a little happy."

"Why is that?" I asked.

"Well, when I turned six, I had six letters in my name and I am the sixth person in my family. And tomorrow, it will all be ruined."

A tragedy in her little eyes, turning seven, while so many of us wish we could be seven again.

In her eyes, her life was changing. She will learn, as most of us have, that when one door closes another one will open. She will discover that seven has as many blessings as six, if not more. Tomorrow, she will receive gifts, cake and well wishes. Hopefully before long, her woes brought on by the changes that come with life on the earth, will be a foggy memory embraced in joy.

I wish my little friend a wonderful birthday filled with happiness. For the rest of us, I wish the growing knowledge that with every change, no matter how painful or tragic the change may seem, there will be an open invitation to embrace a new day filled with the gifts of hope and wonder and maybe even a little cake.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Getting up

Sometimes life can throw a series of curves and the demands that we place on ourselves can tend to pile up. At times such as these, people can get burried under the weight of just trying to keep up.

Some lessons seem simple at first glance, but when it comes to actually putting them into practice, the constancy and dedication required call for lots of discipline. At times, those of us who seem to have everything together can benefit greatly from the lessons of those who appear to face many more challenges than we do. Evidence a presentation made to high school students which was recorded and broadcast on the web. The lesson is simple, 'when you fall, get back up', but that's what makes this so profound.

All of us face challenges to do something better, to be more disciplined about something, or to look at life in a different way. Let's remember that sometimes it's as simple as getting back on our feet.

Thursday, January 8, 2009

The Present

Almost two years ago violin virtuoso Josh Bell played a selection of classical pieces on a 300 year old Stradivari, in a Washington subway station at rush hour. This social experiment conducted by the Washington Times recorded over 1000 people, most on their way to work, who hurried by this gifted musician failing to cast a glance his way or take time to appreciate the moment.

In our fast paced twenty-first century, many of us are so focused on our daily tasks, our work, family and social obligations that we miss opportunities that are placed squarely in front of us. Each day presents us with special gifts. The shadows in a misty sunrise; the lone call of a winter bird; or the smile and heartfelt greeting of a friend are each moments to be savoured.

"Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift, that is why they call it the present".

Enjoy the gifts presented to you in this day and then take a moment to say "Thank You" to the One who gave them to you.

If you have the time, I also invite you to delight in the full 43 minutes of Josh Bell's subway concert captured in the article above. This is a gift you will remember for some time to come.

Monday, January 5, 2009

You'll See My Face

"For every time you fall apart
There'll be a soul to guide your journey
But if you choose to turn away
There in the mirror
You'll see my face
You'll see my face"

These words sung by RyanDan, Canadian twin singing sensations have been playing a lot lately in my car. As twins, when one turns from the other, it is true, that when one looks in the mirror, he will see the other twin's face.

As I listened to these words, I was drawn to reflect on a different and more personal understanding.

That soul guiding my journey is the Holy Spirit acting within me. If I turn away, all I need to do is look in a mirror to see the reflection of God-in-me, staring back at me.

If the Holy Spirit is in me, guiding my actions, can I find that same Spirit in others? Can I learn to approach others with the clear knowledge that as I look at them I am looking into the face of God? Can I be brave and find that face of God in people who look different, who act differently, whose views are not the same as my own? Can I remain open to finding God in people who are hurtful to others in words and in actions? If I find that face of God, will it make it easier to forgive hurtful people?

When I find the face of God in others could I ever turn away from them again?

Those four words, "you'll see my face" are God's promise to me. When I seek Him, I will find Him. In turn, I will promise to seek Him in everyone, and when I find Him, I will honour that Spirit that I find.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Gold in Your Heart

This morning I brought gold, frankincense and myrrh to show the children at our weekly Liturgy of the Word for Children. This morning they gave me a much greater gift.

To allow the children see gold, to touch frankincense and to smell myrrh were my goals for them this morning.

The children listened intently to the story of the Magi finding Baby Jesus. These little ones responded accurately when asked about the contents of the story they had just heard. As they handled the myrrh and frankincense their comments varied but most agreed that incense did not smell very good. Then I asked, "Can you give gold, frankincense or myrrh to Jesus?" At once they responded that they could not. When asked "What gift can you give?" without hesitation the children responded "Love".

Without further prompting the little group offered a host of suggestions for ways to demonstrate love to others and thus, in turn, love for Jesus. What a wonderful gift they gave to the adults in the room. Their large hearts had embraced the meaning of the story and found ways to apply this meaning to their daily lives. If only we adults had hearts big enough to hear God's call for us to be loving people and minds active enough to find ways to bring this call to reality.

The children then created woven paper hearts. The craft was a little complicated, but the children persevered and eagerly helped each other to complete the task. They continued to talk of loving things that they have done and could do. Before they left we gave each child a 'gold' chocolate coin to put in their heart, to represent the gift of 'gold' that is the love in our hearts.

Today these children gave me a gift as valuable as gold: insight into the minds and hearts of the young. With this gift comes the challenge to approach this week with a child's heart and bring the gift of love to all that I do. Will you join me in this challenge?

Saturday, January 3, 2009

One more angel in heaven

The broadway musical Joseph and the Technicolour Dreamcoat brought the story of Joseph and his brothers to life in a way that continues to reach thousands who may or may not be aware of the story's biblical origins.

In one scene of the show, when Joseph's brothers come to their father to explain that Joseph the beloved son has died, the piece of music that is used is entitled One more angel in heaven. I was reminded of this piece during these days as we have enjoyed some amazing skies, cold nights and displays of stars that always cause me to stop, wonder and pray.

Observing New Year's celebrations was particularly difficult for families in Sparwood, BC this year, and for some close friends of ours. On New Year's Day, just two days ago, my family also received the news that a near and dear friend who has been living overseas for a number of years now died peacefully in hospital. Preparations are currently being made for her funeral, and the possibility of a Memorial Mass to be celebrated on this side of the pond for those who cannot be physically present for her obseques.

It seems that Christmastime is a particularly vulnerable time for those who are elderly, and death always seems to be more poignant at this time of year, when our faith tells us that we should be celebrating. Then again, death is nothing but a transition for those who believe, so what better time to celebrate and give thanks for the lives of faith which have brought us friendship and companionship through the years. What better way to understand the gift of God who sent his son to teach us the power of love.

Friday, January 2, 2009

Lord Hear My Prayers

Most of us will have spent the last few days contemplating what the year 2008 held for us. One of my friends said it was the worst year of her life. And it was for her. She helped her husband battle cancer and a few months ago he passed on. Another friend had a year of ups and downs and she is still experiencing turbulance in her life. I have only felt comfortable telling my two closest friends that last year was the best year I have ever had. It was a year filled with wonderful gifts, several trips, and many new friendships formed. It was also a year of struggles and trying to make sense of the things happening my in life. It was a year of making adjustments to the new phase in my husband's and my life. He retired also and now we have a freedom we never had before, ever. It was a year of changing priorities and changing routines and habits. The bottom line is I have been truly blessed by God and I am so thankful! And I know my spiritual journey is the best journey ever!

Most days I am truly happy. Many times I want to shout from the rooftops, "Life is wonderful! God is magnificent and loving!" But the words choke in my throat. How can I tell the people around me who are struggling, hurt, and beaten that I have been so fortunate? And yet these are probably the ones that most need to hear me saying those words. And so I pray that I will be given the words to use in order to be helpful to others, to bring them some comfort, and possibly some words of encouragement. I pray that loved ones around me (and strangers in far off places who need my prayers) will come to the stable to see what I see, hear what I hear and know what I know. And I pray that at this time next year I will be able to look back at 2009, smile, and know that my prayers were answered. I hope that all will know His peace, His love and His joy.

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Grateful

Happy New Year!

As we begin a new year it is customary that we take time to reflect back on the year that has been, and look ahead to the year that will be.

With each passing year these times for reflection seem to get closer and closer together. Days have become an endless stream of minutes and hours that blur in a steady rush. Weeks often feel like Monday, Friday and then Monday again with little time for those days in between.

In this ever increasingly busy life, how often do we pause to reflect on the great and the very basic gifts that our Lord has given to us? Do we take time daily to thank God for the air that we breathe? The water that we drink or bath in? For the people who journey with us? For the sad times so that we can appreciate the good ones?

Perhaps this year, along with our resolutions to get more exercise and to eat better, we can resolve to become more grateful people. Perhaps we can pledge more time to reflect on all of those great things and all of the very basic things we have been graced with. As we lead our very fast paced twenty-first century lives, while recognizing all that we have been given, we can demonstrate our appreciation for God and for one another to everyone this world.

May God Bless you all in 2009!